The Surrogate Dynamic

There is a colloquial saying that I heard as a child that has more truth than I realized. " We are brothers beneath the skin of this there is no doubt, So go back in the skin my friend, and send your brother out!" It's amazing that today that a "representative" is what we see. Whether it is an interview, a date, a family gathering. It appears that no one is truthful. There is a instinctive suspicion that arises when we meet someone that appears to so "nice". Where did that come from? In the past there were door to door salesmen that we let in our homes to sell anything...from vacuum cleaners to insurance. We didn't question the gas man, electricians, or any government workers. We just believed that people are who they SAY they are. There was a time in America when no one really locked the doors to cars or houses. We left our bikes, toys and clothes outside, then the next day we got up and these items were right were we left them. T...